NVC is founded on the interpretation of other peoples verbal and non-verbal language.

NVC is founded on trying to guess what others are feeling.

NVC is founded on language and communication skills that strengthen our ability to remain human, even under trying conditions.

Requests

Diagnosis

Fears

Interpretation

Observations

Needs

Feelings

advising empathetically through the four components.

receiving empathetically through the four compoents.

Diagnosing correctly through the four components.

Expressing honestly through the four components.

schools

disputes and conflicts of any nature

organizations and institutions

diplomatic and business negotiations

families

intimate realtionships

therapy and counselling relationships

judgement

respoonsibility

behave, think and feel.

criticism

you are too generous

She wont get her work in.

Jim's looks don't appeal to me

Doug only studies for exams the night before.

as if

people's names

I/you

that

it

like

he/she

they

I feel frustrated with myself as a guitar player

I feel inadequate as a guitar player

I feel impatient with mysef as a guitar player

I feel disappointed with myself as a guitar player

I feel misunderstood. This indicates my assessment of other people's understanding rather than an actual feeling.

i'm sad that you're leaving.

I feel scared when you say that.

I feel you don't love me

I feel like hitting you.

I'm happy that you can come.